omaha_red wrote:so did you at least tell her she sucks for doing it that way? i mean..
if she wanted to end it she could have at least shown you some
respect.. how did she justify what she did?
I know why she did it. She needs my attention when we're around my friends b/c she feels insecure and out of place for some reason. She got drunk and started hitting on guys because my anger makes her feel loved and secure. It's [expletive] up. She's done it before only in different forms. Every time we're away from her friends she finds some assanine reason to start a fight. Once she tried to leave a wedding reception because she said i was flirting with, get this, the [expletive] bride. So...I get mad and tell her she's retarded and that gives her a reason to get mad and then we fight and it makes her happier doing that than having me sit at the bride and grooms table for 10 minutes talking to them.
Some women are just insecure. I dated a couple, and it sucks.
There's a type of guy who can handle that insecurity (and they're usually male Stage 5 Clingers). But if you're not that type (I'm not either), then it's best for both of you to find somebody else that's more your style.
For example, my previous girlfriend accused me several times of cheating on her and/or going to strip clubs, when I had absolutely no interest in doing either, much less actually doing it. On the flip side, my current gf just sent me an email with a powerpoint presentation of various boobs. This is I think the third email in the past couple of weeks that celebrated naked women. Nice contrast.
omaha_red wrote:
so it's over for good? i mean.. she was doing all this [expletive] to end it?
she sounds like she's about 16..
I guess. That would probably be the best thing. But man it sucks. I'm sitting here at work just thinking about all the good times and wishing it was one of those.
Then, I'll think about this decision* and want to kick my own ass.
* I had an opportunity to move to Germany and get my masters degree for free and passed it up because of this girl.
Socnorb11 wrote:So you took a beating and the bouncer took a beating, but it sounds to me like the bimbo that you were with was the one who needed punched in the face.
What do you tell a woman with no black eyes?
NOTHING. It's time to let your fists do the talking.
Wow that is a really funny joke.
I know, right? Hitting girls is always a cool thing to bring up. So are words like bimbo!
omaha_red wrote:
so it's over for good? i mean.. she was doing all this [expletive] to end it?
she sounds like she's about 16..
I guess. That would probably be the best thing. But man it sucks. I'm sitting here at work just thinking about all the good times and wishing it was one of those.
Then, I'll think about this decision* and want to kick my own ass.
* I had an opportunity to move to Germany and get my masters degree for free and passed it up because of this girl.
Funny how when we all look back, we only remember the good things.
There will always be another opportunity...just keep your eyes and mind open.
Socnorb11 wrote:So you took a beating and the bouncer took a beating, but it sounds to me like the bimbo that you were with was the one who needed punched in the face.
What do you tell a woman with no black eyes?
NOTHING. It's time to let your fists do the talking.
Wow that is a really funny joke.
I know, right? Hitting girls is always a cool thing to bring up. So are words like bimbo!
Oh please. I was pretty clearly joking. Maybe you're sarcastically challenged. Don't be so sanctimonious.
Socnorb11 wrote:So you took a beating and the bouncer took a beating, but it sounds to me like the bimbo that you were with was the one who needed punched in the face.
What do you tell a woman with no black eyes?
NOTHING. It's time to let your fists do the talking.
Wow that is a really funny joke.
I know, right? Hitting girls is always a cool thing to bring up. So are words like bimbo!
Oh please. I was pretty clearly joking. Maybe you're sarcastically challenged. Don't be so sanctimonious.
I'm obviously not sarcastically challenged as evidenced by my sarcastic response to your joke, which it looks like Doc didn't pick up on.
Socnorb11 wrote:So you took a beating and the bouncer took a beating, but it sounds to me like the bimbo that you were with was the one who needed punched in the face.
What do you tell a woman with no black eyes?
NOTHING. It's time to let your fists do the talking.
Wow that is a really funny joke.
I know, right? Hitting girls is always a cool thing to bring up. So are words like bimbo!
Oh please. I was pretty clearly joking. Maybe you're sarcastically challenged. Don't be so sanctimonious.
I'm obviously not sarcastically challenged as evidenced by my sarcastic response to your joke, which it looks like Doc didn't pick up on.
