Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex

[phins]

Men are not good at leaving an old vagina alone before acquiring a new one...or maybe that's just me.

[InvincibleCakeEater]

Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.

Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.

And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.

Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.

++ I cant believe, it took this many posts before this appeared. Move on !!

I have. I was just calling to see how she was.

[TimeForGuinness]

I have. I was just calling to see how she was.

right...you still want to be with her.

i never call ex-girlfriends unless i figured i f'ed up along the way and wonder if there's a chance we may hit it off again.

just my .02 cents...the other .98 cents are up to you

[InvincibleCakeEater]

I have. I was just calling to see how she was.

right...you still want to be with her.

i never call ex-girlfriends unless i figured i f'ed up along the way and wonder if there's a chance we may hit it off again.

just my .02 cents...the other .98 cents are up to you

Girlfriends that you were with for 6 years?

[TimeForGuinness]

I have. I was just calling to see how she was.

right...you still want to be with her.

i never call ex-girlfriends unless i figured i f'ed up along the way and wonder if there's a chance we may hit it off again.

just my .02 cents...the other .98 cents are up to you

Girlfriends that you were with for 6 years?

never dated a girl that long...

[docellis]

I was with a guy for 5 years once and i can't call him and just "see how he is doing".

[InvincibleCakeEater]

I was with a guy for 5 years once and i can't call him and just "see how he is doing".

really? I guess that's just weird to me.

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc. She decides to be a huge [expletive] and we end up getting into it. Anyways, I'm not sure whether I should feel good about letting [expletive] fly and really letting her have it, or if I should feel bad because even though I was angry I said some things that I shouldn't have because I do still love her. Quite a conundrum.

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WTF, mate? If you still love her, why are you not with her? If it's because she doesn't want to be with you, then it might be time to leave her alone and move on as it appears she has.

[TabascoElvis]

I have. I was just calling to see how she was.

right...you still want to be with her.

i never call ex-girlfriends unless i figured i f'ed up along the way and wonder if there's a chance we may hit it off again.

just my .02 cents...the other .98 cents are up to you

Girlfriends that you were with for 6 years?

Other have said it, too. But, Yep.

[InvincibleCakeEater]

So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc. She decides to be a huge [expletive] and we end up getting into it. Anyways, I'm not sure whether I should feel good about letting [expletive] fly and really letting her have it, or if I should feel bad because even though I was angry I said some things that I shouldn't have because I do still love her. Quite a conundrum.

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WTF, mate? If you still love her, why are you not with her? If it's because she doesn't want to be with you, then it might be time to leave her alone and move on as it appears she has.

Because loving someone and still being in love with someone aren't the same thing.