Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex

[InvincibleCakeEater]

So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc. She decides to be a huge [expletive] and we end up getting into it. Anyways, I'm not sure whether I should feel good about letting [expletive] fly and really letting her have it, or if I should feel bad because even though I was angry I said some things that I shouldn't have because I do still love her. Quite a conundrum.

[heyzeus]

You may have impacted the possibility of rebound-nookie.

[Hungary Jack]

Meh. I like a good brawl every now and then. Really clears the air.

[TimeForGuinness]

I think you need to pork her

[phins]

I think you need to pork her

What else are going to do with an ex? You always get the break up sex...it's better when it's "make up break up" sex.

[AdmiralKird]

So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc.

I'm with the girl, you're a huge douche bag for wondering how she's feeling. How could you be so selfish?

[tothebeach08]

Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.

Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.

And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.

[Socnorb11]

Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.

Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.

And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.

Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.

[tothebeach08]

Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.

Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.

And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.

Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.

Well yeah, there's that. But if he's gonna feel bad about the things he said the quickest way to get over it is just to apologize, then definitely move on.

[Swatcat27]

Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.

Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.

And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.

Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.

++ I cant believe, it took this many posts before this appeared. Move on !!