Girls with Boyfriends

[Leroy]

Ahh, the sweet world of the menage twa.

[phins]

Ahh, the sweet world of the menage twa.

Yeah, but I'm not down for a Devil's threeway...

[AdmiralKird]

I don't fundamentally believe in the 'girls like drama arguement' for taking blame off the guy. Girls don't just run around cheating on guys willy-nilly, its caused by other factors in the relationship. Losing interest would be a lot of the guy's fault. Their relationship is strained because ICE said that she wanted an out.

[clevername]

I don't think "losing interest" has to be anyone's fault.

Sometimes folks just don't need to be together.

[phins]

Yeah, without knowing, I'd have to say Admiral is a woman....one who has met some not-so-nice guys while I'm guessing.

[AdmiralKird]

I don't think "losing interest" has to be anyone's fault.

Sometimes folks just don't need to be together.

Then they should mutually realize this and breakup before anything bad happens. Since neither of them decided to break up when they lost interest then they share the blame. Which puts us right back...where we were...

[phins]

I don't think "losing interest" has to be anyone's fault.

Sometimes folks just don't need to be together.

Then they should mutually realize this and breakup before anything bad happens. Since neither of them decided to break up when they lost interest then they share the blame. Which puts us right back...where we were...

Why do so many people feel the need to assess blame?

This is why Cardstalk is a dysfunctional mess...along with other reasons as well, but this is the main reason.

[Popeye_Card]

I don't think "losing interest" has to be anyone's fault.

Sometimes folks just don't need to be together.

Then they should mutually realize this and breakup before anything bad happens. Since neither of them decided to break up when they lost interest then they share the blame. Which puts us right back...where we were...

I'm surmising that you don't have a whole lot of experience with LTR's and crazy chicks.

[AdmiralKird]

Why do so many people feel the need to assess blame?

This is why Cardstalk is a dysfunctional mess...along with other reasons as well, but this is the main reason.

Because people don't want to blame themselves.

[Popeye_Card]

Why do so many people feel the need to assess blame?

This is why Cardstalk is a dysfunctional mess...along with other reasons as well, but this is the main reason.

Because people don't want to blame themselves.

Sometimes people don't need to blame themselves. I know there have been times that I've blamed myself for relationships going south, and come to realize later that I wasn't really the one to blame. [expletive] happens, and sometimes women are just crazy.