Actually, I think it's great that someone is romantically interested in you and said so. Socially awkward, yes, but you're a decent guy and tactful, and I trust you to state how you feel honestly. As you wrote later, you are interested in friendship and support, and just say that. But any time someone says they love you and seem to mean it, that's a compliment.IMADreamer wrote:I'm screwed. I've been hanging out with this girl a few weeks. She's nice, we have fun, but she is not long term relationship material. Then she dropped the L bomb yesterday. I met her family. Nice people, little rough on the edges but meh. As I was dropping her off at her place she said she loved me. I didn't know what to say. I certainly don't love her. I told her I was no where near ready to go there and she said it's fine she understands but she had to tell me how she felt.
Jesus H. tap dancing Christ is this going to be a mess.
I hate dating, I don't want to do it any more. It's no fun and I can't get what I want anyway. I hate it.
At first, when I saw the thread title, I thought you meant "Sapphic." Or that she'd attacked you for being "liberal." I was hoping she was a "libertine," but then remembered her past, so I guess that wasn't too appropriate.
