Locked Engorgement Thread

[heyzeus]

I request that this thread be COCKED

/genitalia zing

[wart57]

I request that this thread be COCKED

/genitalia zing

If it gets locked, then it would be c o c k blocked.

[sighyoung]

So someone's gorge rose about the other thread?

[slide_into_first]

I bet there are species in other galaxies whose females grow more by engorgement than the males.

[slide_into_first]

Also babboons

[slide_into_first]

Anyway, Cronos, I agree with FatBulldog, you don't give up on relationships that easily.

[Cronos]

Anyway, Cronos, I agree with FatBulldog, you don't give up on relationships that easily.

And as I tried to say in the other thread without going into further detail (since I was being told that I shouldn't talk about such reasons in a public place), there are several other reasons. Do folks think that as much I've pissed and moaned about being single that I would think about ending it that quickly without good reasons?

[slide_into_first]

No but there is value in testing how much you can tolerate. Obviously no one would tell you to stay in an abusive relationship but this just seems to be having problems. You shouldn't air any more dirty laundry online but you would be surprised how difficult relatiomships can get better.

[slide_into_first]

Or just throw it back on you- how would you as a therapist know when to encourage a client to try a little longer before walking away?

[Cronos]

No but there is value in testing how much you can tolerate

Honestly, I think that's a terrible idea. I'm not saying relationships should never have conflict or problems, I'm not stupid. But a relationship should not be a test of how much irritation one can tolerate.

Or just throw it back on you- how would you as a therapist know when to encourage a client to try a little longer before walking away?

If I were my own therapist and knew what I know about what's been going on with my relationship, I would neither encourage nor discourage me from continuing this relationship and let me make my own decision. It's not a therapist's job to give advice or encourage a client to stay with someone or break up with someone no matter the situation.