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I met a girl a month or so ago out at a bar and got along really well with her, so naturally I got her number and asked her out. We set up a date when one of her favorite movies (Fight Club) was showing at the KC Drafthouse, but a few nights before that she came out and met me at the bar when I mentioned being there and we hit it off enough that she came back over that night. (No, no sex, but fooled around a little.) Same story when we go out, great conversation, clear interest in me physically. I hit her up the next day to set up another date, but when I text her soon after that she doesn't get back to me.

I'm at Power & Light on Saturday for a friend's birthday and invite her out, but she can't make it out. Ask her if she'd like to go see another one of her favorite movies (Bottle Rocket) that I know is playing in KC and she says that'd be great but never actually responds to my follow-up about meeting up before or whatever. I go out Sunday with some friends not two hours after hearing back from her and run into her. Making out with some other guy at the bar.

Oh, [expletive] you, girl.

Also, the other guy is some totally skeezy shrimpy [expletive] with facial tattoos and droopy gauge holes. And a missing incisor. Uh, knock yourself out...

When women (or just people in general) want something to happen, they do what they can to make it happen. You weren't a high priority for her, so hook up with her when she's interested but keep looking when she's not around.

Get som face tatoos, and some huge ear holes and BAM you are in!

I'll expand on this later, but you're trying too hard and care too much.

Here's your problem. She wanted you to [expletive] her when she came over to your place that night. You should have at least [expletive] her.

AWvsCBsteeeerike3 wrote:I'll expand on this later, but you're trying too hard and care too much.

I already knew that.

She was hoping you were a meth addict.

The Third Man wrote:

AWvsCBsteeeerike3 wrote:I'll expand on this later, but you're trying too hard and care too much.

I already knew that.

wELL, good. Then quit caring. It's incredibly simple. Stop going out and trying to meet girls. You'll have more fun and be a lot happier.

also, yeah that girl is probably stupid. But, you're probably stupid for actually caring that she was making out with some loser at this point of whatever 'relationship' you have. And, further, if a girl denies you twice, let alone 3 times, just move on and quit worrying about her. Odds are you'll see her sucking face with some tatted up nutjob before she blows you.

You shouldn't have played the nice guy. You should have [expletive] her.