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Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 2:58 am
by InvincibleCakeEater
So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc. She decides to be a huge [expletive] and we end up getting into it. Anyways, I'm not sure whether I should feel good about letting [expletive] fly and really letting her have it, or if I should feel bad because even though I was angry I said some things that I shouldn't have because I do still love her. Quite a conundrum.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 7:37 am
by heyzeus
You may have impacted the possibility of rebound-nookie.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 7:42 am
by Hungary Jack
Meh. I like a good brawl every now and then. Really clears the air.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 7:46 am
by TimeForGuinness
I think you need to pork her
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 8:19 am
by phins
TimeForGuinness wrote:I think you need to pork her
What else are going to do with an ex? You always get the break up sex...it's better when it's "make up break up" sex.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 11:51 am
by AdmiralKird
InvincibleCakeEater wrote:So, I was with one girl for 6 years, lived together for a few. We broke up quite awhile back, but I still like to keep in touch. Hadn't talked to her for about two months so I decided to call her this evening. Honestly, just calling to see how things were going, how her family was doing, etc.
I'm with the girl, you're a huge douche bag for wondering how she's feeling. How could you be so selfish?
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 11:58 am
by tothebeach08
Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.
Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.
And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 12:33 pm
by Socnorb11
tothebeach08 wrote:Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.
Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.
And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.
Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 12:42 pm
by tothebeach08
Socnorb11 wrote:tothebeach08 wrote:Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.
Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.
And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.
Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.
Well yeah, there's that. But if he's gonna feel bad about the things he said the quickest way to get over it is just to apologize, then definitely move on.
Re: Rant/Rave - Getting into it with an ex
Posted: August 13 08, 3:49 pm
by Swatcat27
Socnorb11 wrote:tothebeach08 wrote:Sounds to me like the window for make up/break up sex is past. Probably already been there, done that.
Boys, remember there are two sides to every story.
And this will go over big here......If you care about her and you know you said some things you shouldn't have, regardless of how wrong or [expletive] she was, you should call and apologize.
Or do what you probably should have done to begin with..... forget about her, move on, and put your energy toward a better relationship.
++ I cant believe, it took this many posts before this appeared. Move on !!