stlouie_lipp wrote:Jocephus wrote:ray rice beats his wife, on camera, gets a 2 game suspension. but luckily, according to coach, its not a big deal
Speaking about Rice's punishment after the team's first full-quad workout of training camp Thursday in Owings Mills, Maryland, Ravens coach John Harbaugh said: "It's not a big deal. It's just part of the process. We said from the beginning that the circumstances would determine the consequences. There are consequences when you make a mistake like that. I stand behind Ray. He's a heck of a guy. He's done everything right since. He makes a mistake. He's going to have to pay a consequence."
however, the possibility of a gay player making the team (or being cut) is too much of a distraction.
i realize RR, on the field, has proven a lot and sam hasn't (at least in the NFL) but don't give me this distraction malarkey.
And John Harbaugh is being roundly criticized for saying this. But I don't see what one has to do with the other? Harbaugh didn't say anything about Sam or a distraction.
the point im trying to make, and i feel like ive said this many, many times in fairly simple terms in this discussion, is that teams (from all leagues) are willing to try-out, play, sign, hire, etc guys with all sorts of "distractions" attached to their name. i've named several in this thread. what is it about sam's distractions that are so much more to deal with for a coach/team than a player returning to football, after 2 years incarcerated in a federal prison for dog-fighting? or a man who beat his wife on camera in a hotel lobby? or a player signing a lucrative contract after being suspended for steroid use? how come that's easier to deal with? why is harbaugh willing to say that quote and defend his wife beating player, to say its not a big deal? is he loyal to players to a fault? why can't dungy make that same sacrifice? even if sam didn't make the cut, he's not willing to let the guy try out? tony does realize you can be mum to the press. you dont *have* to tell them anything. you can say "he's not a distraction. next question". jeff fisher has no problem doing that. tony's often lauded for being a leader yet he is unwilling to lead sam because of a "distraction"? why did he help lead the vick push? why was he able to analyze that situation, with the help of his lord and savior, and feel vick was worthy of putting his name and values on the line whereas he cannot do the same for sam? what is the main difference?
this isn't about the media (though they no doubt make things louder), this isn't about him even making the team as it's very possible he might not and most supporters of sam realize that. its about an opportunity. dungy doesn't have to be that guy. but tony dungy, the leader of men and a great football coach, refused to even try. yet he says "I was not asked whether I would have a problem having Michael Sam on my team. I would not. ...""... I do not believe Michael's sexual orientation will be a distraction to his teammates or his organization.". he also calls him a good football player, so he must think theres *some* talent there. but the reason he wouldn't draft him is 'cause of the distraction it would bring.