oh great so I'll see you every day. great......

[Popeye_Card]

a)Don't do it. Move along. It's nostalgia.

b)Do it. Don't let this moment slip away. This guy is not right for her.


Choose one of the above.

The only real answer here is A. B is just being an ass.

[cardsfansince82]

If movies have taught me anything, you are supposed to wait until the wedding day to swoop in and steal her.

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

a)Don't do it. Move along. It's nostalgia.

b)Do it. Don't let this moment slip away. This guy is not right for her.


Choose one of the above.

The only real answer here is A. B is just being an ass.

I would correct this and say B is just being a two watt. But, depending on the situation, both could be true statements.

And, depending on what you meant, you're possibly implying women are property or should be treated as such if you meant out of respect for the future fiancée he should keep his mouth shut. She's a grown woman and can make her own decisions. in my opinion.

[IMADreamer]

Ok so we all agree that she's gone then and I should probably move to a different town?

[Popeye_Card]

a)Don't do it. Move along. It's nostalgia.

b)Do it. Don't let this moment slip away. This guy is not right for her.


Choose one of the above.

The only real answer here is A. B is just being an ass.

I would correct this and say B is just being a two watt. But, depending on the situation, both could be true statements.

And, depending on what you meant, you're possibly implying women are property or should be treated as such if you meant out of respect for the future fiancée he should keep his mouth shut. She's a grown woman and can make her own decisions. in my opinion.

Male or female, you respect the relationship they are in. A is completely correct--it is nostalgia. Move on.

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

a)Don't do it. Move along. It's nostalgia.

b)Do it. Don't let this moment slip away. This guy is not right for her.


Choose one of the above.

The only real answer here is A. B is just being an ass.

I would correct this and say B is just being a two watt. But, depending on the situation, both could be true statements.

And, depending on what you meant, you're possibly implying women are property or should be treated as such if you meant out of respect for the future fiancée he should keep his mouth shut. She's a grown woman and can make her own decisions. in my opinion.

Male or female, you respect the relationship they are in. A is completely correct--it is nostalgia. Move on.

Well, yeah, obviously if its just nostalgia and there's no feelings or no possibility of a relationship, then don't pursue someone.

But, coming from a guy who has both broken relationships up and had his relationships broken up, I think it's a mistake to respect a relationship just to not be an [expletive]. A marriage? Sure. You've got to respect that. There's been some awful hard thoughts and work put into that (I hope) and messing up someone's marriage goes beyond the heart. There are real repercussions. Simply giving her an alternative to a current boyfriend/path? There's really nothing wrong there, imo, though it would be seen as a dick move for quite some time....but people get over it.

Even looking at it from the other side, if a girl/guy is going to leave you or has any inclination to leave, wouldn't you want that to come out pre-engagement/wedding as opposed to say 3 years into a marriage.

Relationships that see a lot and don't always have an easy path and survive are something to be cherished. OF course, that's not to say all relationships have to or should be tested. Just something I've thought over the years.