being single

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

Funny how when we all look back, we only remember the good things.

This will probably come off as a cocky statement, but it is how i honestly feel.

This was by far the most intense relationship i've ever been in (three total). When it was good, it was awesome and easily the most enjoyable girl i've ever, ever been around or dated. It was like this 99% of the time. When it was bad, it was horrible. Absolutely horrible. There were no days where it was in the middle. I mean, occasionally we had a blip (like cleaning bass in the kitchen), but even then I would classify it as a good day b/c that feeling was still there.

If it was that good why would she give up on the relationship so quickly?

Because she's bat [expletive] crazy that 1% of the time.

So why did she break up w/ you? Was it because you attempted to knock out the bouncer?

I'm confused on what caused the break-up.

I ended it b/c she's got issues that I simply can't deal with,

[cardinalkarp]

Funny how when we all look back, we only remember the good things.

This will probably come off as a cocky statement, but it is how i honestly feel.

This was by far the most intense relationship i've ever been in (three total). When it was good, it was awesome and easily the most enjoyable girl i've ever, ever been around or dated. It was like this 99% of the time. When it was bad, it was horrible. Absolutely horrible. There were no days where it was in the middle. I mean, occasionally we had a blip (like cleaning bass in the kitchen), but even then I would classify it as a good day b/c that feeling was still there.

If it was that good why would she give up on the relationship so quickly?

Because she's bat [expletive] crazy that 1% of the time.

So why did she break up w/ you? Was it because you attempted to knock out the bouncer?

I'm confused on what caused the break-up.

I ended it b/c she's got issues that I simply can't deal with,

So you broke up with her? Now I'm really confused.

[Richie Allen]

This was by far the most intense relationship i've ever been in (three total). When it was good, it was awesome and easily the most enjoyable girl i've ever, ever been around or dated. It was like this 99% of the time. When it was bad, it was horrible. Absolutely horrible. There were no days where it was in the middle. I mean, occasionally we had a blip (like cleaning bass in the kitchen), but even then I would classify it as a good day b/c that feeling was still there.

Again, that's not uncommon in a relationship with a girl like this. I've been with a girl similar to what you describe and we had some of the greatest times I've ever had but she would also invent problems after a certain amount of smooth sailing. She didn't seem to know how to live without a drama of some sort going on in her life. I was seeing a shrink at that time and he pretty much made me feel like it was an issue that she was going to have to work out (self-esteem) and it actually had very little to do with me. I think she made great strides when she was with me (I knew her long before) but the fact remains she was/is a mess. A very fun girl but too much other "baggage" to tolerate after awhile.

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

So you broke up with her? Now I'm really confused.

LEt me put it in a timeline of sorts to clear everything up:

Sat. morning starts off with a bang, literally. Awesome.
Sat. afternoon we get to my friends. Awesome.
Sat. night we go out to a Sushi bar. Awesome.
At dinner, she gets really drunk and starts in with the weirdness (calling her friends during dinner/texting them/not paying any attention to the table/acting aloof). Not so awesome.
Go out after dinner. She starts doing anything for attention. She leaves us all and starts wandering around on her own. Not so awesome.
Later in the night starts hitting on guys right in front of me. Not awesome. Leads to fight.

I get mad. End relationship.

[cardinalkarp]

So why are you feeling so sorry for yourself?

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

So why are you feeling so sorry for yourself?

Because the 99% of the time when it was awesome > when we're not together.

[thrill]

So why are you feeling so sorry for yourself?

Sounds lik he made the decision with his brain, not his heart and that is hard.

[Popeye_Card]

So you broke up with her? Now I'm really confused.

LEt me put it in a timeline of sorts to clear everything up:

Sat. morning starts off with a bang, literally. Awesome.
Sat. afternoon we get to my friends. Awesome.
Sat. night we go out to a Sushi bar. Awesome.
At dinner, she gets really drunk and starts in with the weirdness (calling her friends during dinner/texting them/not paying any attention to the table/acting aloof). Not so awesome.
Go out after dinner. She starts doing anything for attention. She leaves us all and starts wandering around on her own. Not so awesome.
Later in the night starts hitting on guys right in front of me. Not awesome. Leads to fight.

I get mad. End relationship.

Honestly, to me I think it sounds like she overreacted to your annoyance that she was being aloof. I mean, I wasn't there so I don't know the real details, but sometimes when I'm in a sour mood, I'm aloof, and that's all the more there is to it. Maybe she just didn't want to hang out with your friends any more that night.

Sounds to me like the night should have wrapped up and everyone head home after she's initially bummed out. Sometimes you have to do that in a relationship when one party isn't having a good time.

[TimeForGuinness]

So why are you feeling so sorry for yourself?

Sounds lik he made the decision with his brain, not his heart and that is hard.

bingo.

[AWvsCBsteeeerike3]

So I just went to craigslist to see if there was anything on there and stumbled into this beauty:

who wants to spend the holidays alone? i am lonley and want to have someone to show the family. come have fun with everyone then i will [expletive] your brains out. i am a full figured woman and your personality matters more than your looks. don't be afraid to e-mail me. you never know